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Laura Berman Dilators - vibrating plastic set

Discount $-10.00
Sales price $78.90
Laura Berman's Dilator set features:
  • 4 sizes of plastic dilators (TPS) with interlocking sleeves for custom girth selection
  • a multi-speed vibrating handle and shaft (uses 2 x AA batteries, not included)
  • Size 1 comes integrated into the handle, the next 3 sizes slot over eachother and lock into place onto the handle
  • Each dilator has a rounded end, gently tapering out to maximum width by approx 1cm up shaft
  • A soft knobbly outer sleeve (TPR) fits over the size 3 dilator to give increased sensation and texture
Dilators are generally used:
  • After clinical treatments known to cause adhesions (soft tissue fusion) within the vagina such as after any surgical proceedures, a vaginal or abdominal hysterectomy, radiotherapy or after childbirth.
  • To reduce spasms/clamping of pelvic floor muscles and to retrain vaginal muscles to relax (e.g. in cases of vaginismus; painful intercourse; or following childbirth).
  • To help stretch scarring caused from stitiches after birth or with vulval skin conditions such as lichen sclerosis.
  • To assist in overcoming psychological trauma associated with sexual intercourse.
  • By women who have pain with sex, caused by other reasons.

A typical dilator program involves inserting a dilator that is comfortable yet applies some vaginal pressure/stretch.  Dilators can be used daily (for approx. 10 mins) while doing relaxation techniques. After this a self stretching program and scar tissue massage can be performed. The goal is to insert the largest size dilator that you need to accomodate (usually the size of your husbands/partners penis) with no pain, stress response, fear/anxiety or embarrassment. Dilators can be used in the bath and cleaned with warm soapy water.

A personalised program cannot be offered on this website. Please seek the advice of your pelvic floor Physiotherapist if you are seeing one. Or please Contact Us if you have any questions. I am happy to give advice and guide you in your decision.
A high quality lubricant is recommended to use with the dilators - we recommend any of the lubricants sold in this store. 


About the Designer:

Laura Berman, LCSW, PhD, is an assistant professor of Psychiatry and Obstetrics/Gynecology at the Feinberg School of Medicine at Northwestern University. She has been working as a sex educator and therapist for 20 years, and is considered a leader in her field. Her latest book, Real Sex for Real Women is an international Best Seller.


Sizing and dimensions:
Length (cm)     
Max. Circumference (cm)        
Diameter (at base)     
1 9cm 7.2cm 2.0cm
2 11cm 8.7cm 2.7cm
3 14cm 10.5cm 3.2cm
4 15cm 12cm 3.7cm
 Size 2 + knobbly outer sleeve  11.5cm 12cm 3.3cm
 Handle 10.5cm  








We recommend seeing a Doctor before commencing a dilator treatment program to rule out medical reasons for your symptoms including vaginal infections, diseases and skin conditions.

If the use of these products do not relieve your symptoms - please consult your Doctor, Gynaecologist or Physiotherapist specialising in the Pelvic Floor. Preferably, find a Physiotherapist specialising in the Pelvic Floor to help guide you with your program.

Painful sex? Reduced libido and arousal? Tight pelvic floor muscles?

Take a positive step and consider an online skype consultation with Sharon from Restore Physiotherapy, for more information click here.

Disclaimer: Restore Physiotherapy is not responsible for the misuse of this product. Our statements are suggestions only. Please use caution when using. We recommend consulting a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist for proper use. Sold as an adult novelty toy only.


Shipping Costs

Postage within New Zealand:
  • Local Pickup - free (Tuesday to Thursday from 11am, 18 Nile St West, Nelson)
  • Flat rate - $8 (Courier delivery, tracked with or without signature, Monday to Friday delivery)
  • Flat rate rural delivery - $11 (Courier delivery, tracked, without signature, Monday to Friday delivery)
  • FREE SHIPPING for purchases over $150 placed online (excludes over the phone or email orders). $6 rural fee still applies. Max 3 items. Conditions apply.
  • Bulky and oversized items (ie. pumps). Might be sent via NZ Post standard parcel post and not courier
International Shipping:
  • We are happy to post items overseas. Contact us for more information.